Yes-2. no-yes it is perfectly normal to wonder whether you performance is able satisfy youre performance. men, in particular, are afraid that they wont be able to satisfy their partners needs. in most cases, youre partner is just as equally paranoid about whether they are able to pleasure you or not. just relax and enjoy sex. no well then, good! You are confident and youve got your groove on in bed. be sure, however, to make your partner feel that they are performing well too. provide good feedback and they will reciprocate better, leading to more enjoyable sex.