Participants lose sight of the initial goals. Hurting the other people becomes a primary focus. It is inappropriate and ineffective communication. (Conflict spirals out of control and is characterized by escalation, retaliation, domination, competition, cross-complaining, defensiveness and inflexibility.) (Side note- YouTube video with T/As was played)
Tactics include threats, intimidation, condescension, dishonesty, and personal assaults (verbally or physical)