Divorcing is a deeply personal decision, and there’s no universal way to tell when it’s time to get one. However, there are some nasty signs you should watch out for. If you experience the following, you should seriously consider a divorce:
Your spouse’s touch creeps your or irritates you;
You feel like you never have peace at your home;
You are suffering physical or emotional abuse;
Your home does not feel safe for you or your children;
You and your spouse spend more time fighting than doing anything else together;
You have started taking steps to avoid spending time with your spouse as much as possible;
Resentment, contempt, anger, guilt, and other negative emotions have become the dominant emotions in your relationship;
Cheating has become commonplace for either you or your spouse, and life in your bedroom has never been colder;
You can’t even imagine what you or your spouse could do to make the relationship work again;
Mistakes that used to get you angry now only make you feel cold — in other words, you are no longer emotionally invested in the relationship, so you don’t care one way or the other.