How can I be nice to my younger sister?

It’s a good thing that you want to be nice to your younger sister. This may be hard at first, but as time goes by, it will become easy and worth it.

First, try to become friends with her, talk to her as often as you can, listen to what she has to say, try to know what’s happening in her life. Spend time with her, this includes going out to somewhere fun with her and helping her with her work.

Also try to be respectful towards her, when you treat her with respect she will be respectful towards you. Encourage and commend her efforts – either work or school.

If you have arguments with her, do not rush to “win”. Give her time to express herself, try to stop the argument by staying calm.

It's all about taking turns and sharing. Do you give your younger sister a fair share of what's going? Do you hog parental attention or cause more work? Just check up on yourself and see how near the 50/50 you are in everyday life. Good news.

You are nice enough to even ask this question, so you get brownie points for that. If you were a write-off as a person you wouldnt be caring about being nice to anyone at all! Maybe she is impossible and you don't know how to deal with it, or maybe you're hot-headed, act meanly, and then suffer pangs of guilt afterwards. I am not to know, so you should phrase your question more specifically so that I can answer more helpfully.