Y. Dawne, Content Blogger, Diploma in Journalism, Amsterdam, Netherlands
Answered Feb 07, 2019
The idea that all men are the same comes from bad experiences. If a woman is dating men who are decent to men to her, then it's because she finds them attractive subconsciously, yet doesn't want to admit. Like women, men are biologically similar to each other, but they are complex, yet not given enough credit for that characteristic. Therefore, the classic saying “All men are pigs” is shot about in conversations among female friends.
That's definitely not the case. Some men are nice and sweet; some rugged; some bold and daring. Some are caring, some aloof. Some are talkative; some are good listeners. Some pretend to listen; some are innocent and some cunning. Some respect women; some don't. Some are rapists and abusers; some are rescuers. Some are the big bro you want; some are total jerks. They can break you hearts or mend them. What’s important for a woman is generalizing every man alienating the men who are upstanding.
There are a lot of women who feel that all men are the same because they have been hurt by different men several times the same way. There are a lot of men who would pursue women and the moment that they have already gotten what they want, they would leave the women that they have pursued behind.
There are some men who have already found great women but they cannot help but still have affairs with other women. Of course, there are some men who are considered to be exceptions but they are hard to find in this world. Most men would stray at least at one point during the relationship.