For me, I come first. Self-awareness and self-love are the most important. I have to love myself first, be at peace with myself because even when friends, fortune is not present, I will always have myself. I am my highest priority. Love, friendship, and fortune are also essential.
When you are at peace with yourself, you can love in the right way; you can make the right friends. Fortune will come when you work towards it. Fortune can be present today and absent tomorrow, so it is not the most important.
To me, friendship should always come first because without that, there is no hope and no love. In a lover, I would tend to look in the direction of someone who is a loyal and authentic friend and someone who is not even remotely capable of having a self-centered heart.
I think that you should always put your feelings first, specifically when it comes to staying true to yourself. I think you must be candid about who you are and know your self well enough to say no when it is necessary. Also, fortune can come and go but love lasts continually; however, it is always a plus to have nice things for yourself.