I wouldn’t know how hard it is to date a traditional Indian girl, as I am an American woman. However, having done some research, I can tell you this: the dating scene in India is almost nothing, but it depends on where you are. There’s a bigger dating scene near the colleges and big cities, as there would be anywhere.
Some Indians lament online that there’s such a toxic dating culture that dating is not really what most of us think of; it’s just a pre-marriage relationship that leads to marriage, without any of the getting to know each other or patient dating that has become a cornerstone of relationships in Western countries.
So, the best answer I can give you? It depends on where you are.