There are some studies that are showing that cats may be showing that they are indifferent towards human beings and they do not care. The truth is that they do. They can be concerned when they know that their human is not feeling well. The thing about cats is that they do not treat us the way that dogs do.
Rather, cats will treat us like how they treat other cats but this does not mean that they do not love us. There are a lot of cats who enjoy being a part of the family and they can live amicably with the families that they love for a long time.
There may be a lot of reasons your cat hates you, including forcing them into social interactions and holding them too tight. Cats are known for being independent, and one of their key needs involves allowing your cat to hide if she feels stressed, as well as giving your cat places to move vertically. If a cat does not have these options, she can react negativly to unpleasent events such as loud noises or strangers in the house.
Humans can also misinterpret a cat's hiding behavior and attempt to force the cat out to deal with the situation that is making her stressed.