Purses and handbags come in different sizes for the different needs of the person. A massive tote may look enormous and could be almost as big as a piece of luggage. However, this type of handbag might look right with a certain outfit. Also, carrying a massive tote might be needed if the person has a lot of stuff and they need to take that stuff with them.
If they have a small child, they might not want to carry a baby bag because it would not complement the outfit. Instead, they may want to carry a large tote for both the baby’s things and the mother’s things. However, if the person is going to formal event in a beautiful formal gown, then a little clutch would be needed.