In general, feminists do not hate men. Of course, there may be some individual feminists who do hate men but to think that all feminists hate men is simply not true. Feminism is a political movement and a philosophy of equality for all, including equality for women and men. So hating men actually goes against the philosophy.
Saying all feminists hate men is like saying all white people are in favor of slavery. Two hundred years ago, feminists advocated for the right to vote, to own property, and to attend college. In essence, it’s been a struggle for equality for a long time.