Personally, I have never had a desire to serve in the military. Growing up, I have seen the effects of serving in the military, and it impacts me differently than others. Yes, it is great to serve and protect your country, but for me, the real work has been seen when my father returned home from the army.
To this day, he suffers from PTSD, and on top of that, he only has heard in one year due to the gunfire and explosions that he experienced. It is hard caring for him with these conditions, which is why I would not want to serve in the military because I do not want my daughter to have to experience what I did growing up.