There are many negative personality traits that no one enjoys very much. Having a controlling personality is not going to make you many friends and will likely annoy people a lot. No one likes being told or made to do something they do not want to do. Another annoying personality trait are those people who manipulate you into doing things that they want you to do. They can manipulate you by using tactics like guilty trips in order to make you feel guilty.
Make sure to avoid these people and choose friends who do not use these tactics of that have these negative personality traits.